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Writer's pictureDarshika Singh

Embracing Sobriety: Yes i am a teetotaler but not boring.

Introduction:

In a world where loud glasses usually mean friendliness, choosing to embrace the tee-total lifestyle while wandering the social scene with a glass filled with cola instead of a Carlsberg is acceptable and they have lifted up my eyes. My goal in this blog is to shed light on misconceptions about non-drinkers, challenging the misconception that choosing to abstain equates to being a party pooper.


Breaking the Mold:

Let's be honest – not everyone who chooses to socialize is aiming to reach a state of inebriation that would put a frat party to shame. However, the omnipresence of alcohol in various social scenarios often makes it seem like a mandatory ingredient for fun. Whether it's a quiet night at the local pub or a lively gathering on the terraces, opting for a coke over a cocktail can elicit the age-old question: "Why aren't you drinking?"


The Unwritten Code:

I realized that the pressure to drink was deeply embedded in our social fabric. This unspoken expectation can be a little annoying for some, but for me it turns out to be ridiculously sad. It is important to clarify that the intention is not to disparage those who enjoy the drink; We are all unique and have different reactions to alcohol.


The Sad Side of Stereotypes:

The perception that a non-drinker is inherently dull or disconnected from the revelry stems from societal norms perpetuated by advertising and the media. The image of alcohol as the ultimate catalyst for good times dominates commercials, depicting beer-soaked, vodka-fueled moments as the epitome of joy. The question arises – should we attribute these judgmental inquiries to the influence of advertising and media?


Respecting Choices:

In a world where there are no mandatory laws requiring alcohol consumption, why maintain unwritten alcohol laws? Many people drink for a variety of reasons, but for me there is nothing worse than witnessing someone drinking just to add in. My simple advice echoes through the noise – that your happy with a glass of wine or Coke bottle, enjoy that . Together, however, let us avoid judging others based on their choices.


Conclusion:

Choosing sobriety isn't about being a spoilsport; it's a conscious decision to enjoy life without the haze of alcohol. So, the next time you see someone sipping on sobriety, pause before passing judgment. After all, the beauty of socializing lies in the diversity of choices, and embracing a tee-total lifestyle doesn't make one boring—it makes them authentically themselves. Cheers to a vibrant, judgment-free social scene where everyone is free to revel in their chosen beverages, alcohol-infused or not!

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