Hey there, lovely souls!
Let's talk about something that's been on my mind lately: love. We've all heard the phrase "love hurts," but here's the thing – it really shouldn't. True love, that pure and beautiful connection between two souls, shouldn't bring sadness, disappointment, pain, or problems into your life. If it does, then it's not genuine love at all.
You see, love isn't the culprit here. It's the people who don't understand how to love properly that cause the hurt. When someone lies, cheats, or betrays our trust, it's not love hurting us – it's their actions. And unfortunately, those actions can leave us feeling bitter and disillusioned about love itself. I get it – heartbreak is tough. And I know firsthand how hard it can be to trust again after experiencing that kind of pain.
But here's the thing: we can't let past hurts dictate our future. It takes courage to open our hearts to someone new, but we can't let fear hold us back. True love sees beyond our imperfections and loves us for who we are – messy bits and all.
Real love doesn't tear you down; it builds you up. It makes you happier than you've ever been and heals the parts of you that have been broken. It's a force for good in your life, not a source of pain.
So if you're in a relationship where you're constantly feeling judged, unappreciated, or unwanted, it's time to reassess. Love should lift you up, not bring you down. And if it's not doing that, then it's not true love.
It's also important to recognize the difference between real love and abuse. Abuse should never be tolerated in any form. If you're not receiving the love, attention, and respect you deserve, it's time to walk away – no ifs, ands, or buts.
But don't lose hope. True love is out there, waiting for you. And when you find it, you'll know. It'll feel euphoric and spontaneous, like nothing you've ever experienced before.
And remember, it's the little things that matter most in a relationship. It's not about grand gestures or materialistic gifts – it's about the daily acts of love and kindness that show your partner you care.
So don't settle for someone who tries to change you into their idea of perfection. Be yourself, and the right person will love you for exactly who you are.
In the end, love should be a source of joy and fulfillment in your life. It should never hurt you or make you feel unwanted. So don't give up on finding true love. Keep believing, keep hoping, and one day, you'll find that person who turns your world upside down in all the best ways possible.
Thanks for taking the time to read this. If you enjoyed it, don't forget to show some love by hitting that ❤️ button. Let's spread the message that true love doesn't hurt – it heals.
Happy Holi mam